Choosing a Maternity Bra

Breast changes are inevitable during pregnancy and beyond, at times you may not recognise your own chest, and perhaps at the end of your baby journey you may find they are completely different to what you started with!
It is important to protect and support your breasts as well as you can. Choosing bras that fit well will help support their changing shape and size, and help prevent blockages that can cause painful breast infections.

You may find that you will need to wear maternity bras (softer, non-underwire styles) early in your pregnancy, or you may be able to make the change a bit later. It is preferable that you are not wearing underwire in your last trimester, and after week 33 you should start thinking about your maternity bras.

Maternity bras are designed to support your breasts, while allowing for the changes that will occur while feeding (engorgement, milk coming in and then emptying). They have little clips that allow you to remove the cup to expose the nipple to feed without having to remove your bra (hitching a non-maternity bra up or down may cause blockages).

The bigger the shoulder straps, the wider the back strap, the more support. Also look for adjustable straps and back clips.
Your nipples will be very tender after birth (if they aren’t already) and so we recommend that you choose a bra that is not made of hard lace, or have seams running across the nipples.

It pays to get professionally fitted for your maternity bras, because those in the lingerie department know how much room you need to leave to allow your breasts to expand (when your milk comes in).
Remember that noone knows exactly how your breasts will respond after birth, so we strongly recommend keeping your receipts so that you can change the size if you need to!

When you are trying on bras, test how easy the clip is to open and close. Some clips that are too high up the strap are harder to clip on. Velcro may lose its ‘stick’ after a few washes. Cheaper clips may more difficult to do up with one hand.

You will need at least 2, if not 3 bras, for the first few weeks. This leaves you one to wear, one in the wash, and preferably a clean one ready to wear. You may prefer to try a couple of different brands to find which one you like better.

Some women prefer to wear their bras at night, for extra support, particularly in the first few weeks. There are some great maternity singlets/tops that you may find more comfortable for night feeding – they have the same clips and some support, but are not as tight as a bra.

After a couple of months, you will need to be re-fitted. By this stage, if you are still feeding, your breasts will have settled into a size that may be different to those first few weeks. If you have stopped breastfeeding, your breasts may be a different size than pre-pregnancy and you will probably need new bras to provide support.

Ensuring you have a good maternity bra will make things more comfortable for you.

Some fabulous maternity bra tips:
*Wide back and shoulder straps provide the most support
*Be professionally fitted to ensure good support and enough room for when your milk comes in
*Avoid underwire in later pregnancy and while breastfeeding to avoid blockages
*Avoid hard lace and seams across the nipples
*Ensure the clip is easy to open and close with one hand

 

MUMMYTIPS

 “I packed my maternity bras with the shop receipt, into my hospital bag. After having baby, my bras didn’t fit, but it was easy for my partner to change them because the tags were still on them”

“I prefer the bras that when you unclip the cup, there is still a band of fabric around my breast. This keeps the shoulder strap from slipping down my arm!”

Take advantage of sales! You can get your maternity bras 20-30% off if you wait for a sale weekend!”

“Some brands have loyalty clubs for their bras, and you can get free items if you purchase so many – ask instore! I got a free bra when I bought 3 of my favourite ones!”

Packing your labour & hospital bags

Another article from my old site – MummyandTummy :-)

It is generally recommended to pack your bags about a month before your Due Date – and at least by Week 37. Try and pack two bags so that you can separate the labour stuff from the belongings you will need for your hospital stay.

If you are planning a homebirth, you may still want to place all your birthing and immediate post-natal items in a box for easy finding. Talk to your midwife about what you may need, and what she will supply.

Highlight items you will need to grab closer to the day (things you are using now, for example) and write on any additional items so you wont forget. Place this list on top of your labour bag so you can grab it when the time comes!
(It will also make it easier for your support person to help if you are unable to pack your bags on the day).

Labour Bag
The following may be handy, or inspire you to think of your own items. Better to have too much than not enough!!! You many need to talk to your midwife about any additional items you may need, or what the hospital/birthing centre offers.

This is your labour so make it how you want!

• Snacks for you and birthing partner, and a water bottle each
• Your birth plan and any other notes
• Energy drinks and lollies
• A watch (with a second hand!)
• Wheatbag or heat pack
• Hair ties or headband
• Socks or slippers
• T-shirt/singlet and/or sarong
• Massage oil (something that isn’t strong smelling)
• Underwear
• Lipbalm
• CDs/Tapes and player
• Camera and batteries

Hospital Bag
Make your stay as comfortable as possible

• Dressing gown or clean sarong
• Change of clothes (maternity wear) and underwear
• Maternity bra and receipts (two or three)
• Breastpads
• MP3player, headphones and batteries, or earplugs
• Toiletries
• Your own sanitary pads if you wish
• Snacks
• Magazines
• Pillow (maybe your own duvet?)
• Arnica Spray, Floradix and any medications
• Journal
• Address book
• Plastic bags for dirty washing
• The baby car seat
• Baby clothes (light clothing for hospital stay)
• Baby Clothes (homecoming outfit including hat)
• Baby blanket
• Cloth nappies if you choose not to use the hospital disposables

 

More on packing bags:

You wont be completely free of your baby bump once baby arrives! Your tummy will become an unrecognisable squishy thing, and you will still need maternity wear for a few more days. You may be very tired and uncomfortable so very loose-fitting clothing (like pajamas) may be the most suitable.

Maternity Wards can be very warm, so you may not need much, However a sarong or dressing gown will allow you to cover up when moving around. Your baby may not need much more than a singlet to wear in the ward but will need to be dressed to come home. And if they are sick or pooey you will need more than one change!!!

 

MUMMYTIPS

 I packed a few wet face cloth in a ziplock bag, which was handy for wiping my face (and spew :-( unfortunately) and cooling me down during labour.

I took my own duvet for the hospital stay! The hospital blankets are too light and I felt much cosier with my own!                                -AA

Facial wipes were handy for freshening up in the morning and before visitors, because I found it hard to get out of bed for the first few days. Dove ones smell good and moisturised my face too!!

Don’t forget the MP3 player – especially in case you have to share a room!!

One of the best things is packing citravescent ural sachets to help you pee painlessly after giving birth, they just help make things that much better!!!
 
Also lip balm!!! Even vaseline, you will be doing lots of talking & kissing that baby of yours!
                                                                                    -TJ

Month-by-Month Pregnancy

 Another MummyandTummy article :-)

 

Your tummy expands, your excitement grows… and so does the little babe inside your bump!! Check out some of these websites for pregnancy information, due-date calendars and weekly tracking emails!

(we’re not affiliated with any of these businesses or products, we just like their emails and websites! And thats what MummyandTummy is all about – honest parent-to-parent advice!)

Little Treasures
Sign up for Treasures’ Expected Treasures pregnancy tracker emails. This is a New Zealand website and you’ll find some interesting articles on topics including pregnancy niggles, morning sickness and choosing a name for your baby!

Parents Centre
A New Zealand website, home to Parents Centres New Zealand Inc. Parents Centres have centres around the country offering childbrith education, parenting courses, antenatal classes, newsletters, reading library, coffee and play groups and more. This website is developing a pregnancy section including a due-date calendar, some tips for easing morning sickness, and choosing a LMC.

Oh Baby!
A due date calendar, antenatal care tips and information on tests etc, travelling while pregnant and maternity wear make this a relevant and informative Kiwi website. Oh Baby has a pregnancy diary too which is fascinating to read!!

 

Kidspot
This is a New Zealand website and you’ll find fantastic information on choosing a Lead Maternity Carer (LMC), what foods to eat and avoid during pregnancy, and a directory of products and services for maternity wear, nursery, baby gear and more!

Origins’ obstetricians
Three obstretricians who run an Auckland-based clinic as LMCs for pregnant woman. This website has a pregnancy calendar and some general information on pregnancy, like some reasons for concern during pregnancy and questions for developing a birth plan. For NZers who are not Origins customers, you will still like the reccomended reading and links pages for more information!
About.Com – Pregnancy Calendar
This website has comprehensive info on everything pregnancy related including Am I Pregnant?, baby names, baby showers, Your Pregnant Body, prentatl care, labour and birth etc. Some of it is rather American but there are some neat pictures of womb babies!

Blackmores Australia
If you can get over the advertising of Blackmores there is some very cool sutff on this website! Sign up for their emails to keep on track during your pregnancy, learn more about fertility and conception, work out your due date on their calendar, and best of all, Blackmores have a VERY cool 3D video of a vaginal birth! Wow!

ParentingWeekly
This American-based website emails you weekly with updates on your pregnancy – and then carries through into your first year – very cool! Covering loads of relevant topics, lots of great advice and tips, this is one email you’ll love to recieve (just ignore the USA bit. Occasionally you get American-based advertising emails, but these are easily deleted!)

What to Expect
The What to Expect when you are Expecting books are very popular and now you can be emailed weekly! Sign up for emails and track your baby’s growth. Very very American but some useful advice.

BabyGaga
Another USA site, with pregnancy tickers (for use on forums) but also a pregnancy tracker email.

Maternity Wear

From my old MummyandTummy website…

What was your best maternity buy? What would you do again differently regarding your maternity wardrobe? Have you got any great maternity stores or websites you would reccomend? Comment below!!

THIS PAGE -what to buy, going green, mummytips and where to buy it

What to Buy

How many maternity clothes do you need? What do you need? The answer is… it depends. It depends on your budget and your lifestyle. Are you a working professional, who needs to look dressy? You may need to invest in some maternity dresses to keep your wardrobe looking smart. Are you working from home or caring for other babes? You may be able to extend your current wardrobe with a few extras, which will help you keep the cost down! We reccomend investing in a decent pair of jeans and a nice skirt – many mums reccomend Egg maternity jeans. Then, mix and match with cheaper tops from some of the suppliers below. If you are planning more than one pregnancy, consider buying a couple of nice label tops. Then use aaccesories and some of the cheaper maternity outlets to boost your wardrobe. You will find that buying the more expensive but quality gear will see you through more than one pregnancy. And you can replace the cheaper clothes each time to give your limited wardrobe a boost and still feel fashionable! You will find great clothes like wrap dresses and tops from non-maternity outlets, such as Ezibuy and Farmers – bargains that will extend your wardrobe cheaply! However investing in some maternity tops will come in handy when you breastfeed as most are designed to take you post-pregnancy with easy access to your breasts. Often good maternity wear will have a decent selling value in a second-hand store or on Trade Me. You can also find bargains, especially on Egg wear, from these places too – www.trademe.co.nz! Finally, grab some belly tubes – they’re fabulous for covering your growing belly, and after birth, covering that same (but smaller!) tummy when you are breastfeeding. You can get plain ones or patterned ones and they’re often on Trade Me, or on some of the websites below.

Checklist:
A decent pair of jeans
Another pair of pants casual dress or 3/4 pants (depending on season)
two or three long singlets for layering
three casual tops
one dressy top (at least)
A wrap dress

Going Green
Now that you have someone else in your body to think of, you may be starting to reconsider what you use, wear, eat and breathe. Going natural or organic where possible is common in pregnancy and with a new baby because you have this overwhelming urge to protect this innocent new life! Clothing is a major issue when it comes to going green. Cheap, mass-produced items can be high in chemicals, have traveled many miles to get to you, use cheap labour and other issues. If you’re on a budget but want to start getting green for the sake of yourself and your new babe, consider stocking up on a second-hand maternity wardrobe. You’ll be saving money and the planet! (Try www.trademe.co.nz or http://www.bloomingbeautiful.co.nz for some FAB bargains on top brands!). If you want to take your maternity wear to the next level, you can consider ORGANIC fabrics. Look for items made in NZ for even better eco-cred!

Organic Maternity Wear
www.eggmaternity.co.nz
www.womama.co.nz

MummyTips
Here are some reccomendations for your maternity wardrobe from our fabulous MummyandTummy members:

“Buy from Trade Me – you can get some lovely maternity clothes at a fraction of the cost – and then resell them once you’re done too!”

“JayJays have these long, lacy-edged singlets which are perfect for growing tummies. You can layer under clothes or wear on their own. A definite essential, I had four in different colours and I wore them under my usual tops so I didnt have to spend more money.”

“A decent pair of maternity jeans and a dressy pair of black pants or a black skirt should cover your bases. Wear trackies at home. Mix and match with different (cheaper!) tops for a complete wardrobe.”

“I am so glad I bought some belly tubes – stretchy fabric cloth that goes over your bump. It meant I could wear my usual clothes over top. Great for breastfeeding too because you can cover your flabby tum!”

“I used a hairtie to extend the button on my hipster non-maternity jeans for several months”

“My Mummy tip for buying maternity gear is buy yourself at least one good quality item. The Pumpkin Patch and JK stuff is fine for everyday, but the 2 EGG tops I brought were worth every cent. I wore them so much, and they still look in great condition, and it was nice to have somthing really stylish to wear (nicer than my regular non pregnancy clothes even!) And plus with the second preg, they were still in great shape, unlike the other stuff.” -Jody

 

Where to Shop

ONLINE STOCKISTS OF MATERNIY WEAR IN NZ: (remember we dont have affiliation with any of these suppliers, this is just a general directory for New Zealand. If you know of a business we dont have, let us know! We’d also love to hear your reviews and experiences with these businesses!)

http://www.mamalove.co.nz/
https://www.mama2b.co.nz
http://www.maternitydirect.co.nz/
http://www.newlifematernity.co.nz/
http://www.mobea.co.nz/
www.pregnancypitstop.co.nz
http://www.bobmaternity.co.nz/
http://www.jk.co.nz
http://www.pumpkinpatch.co.nz/
www.eggmaternity.co.nz
www.womama.co.nz

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